Why cant i fall asleep when i have a butt plug in? Ill specify that its an silicone butt plug, and the size is 9 cm long, 3 cm width, i usually fall asleep verry verry quick, but last night over 2 hours and couldnt fall asleep with it, after i took it out i falled asleep in less than 10 minutes, any arguments or how to fix this?
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A piece of warning: that plug is going to be VERY uncomfortable if the lube dries out while you are asleep.
If you intend to sleep with it for 8-10 hours, figure out first that you actually can manage for that long when you are awake.
The discomfort sneaks up on you more when you are not awake to immediately notice. Be careful with yourself.
You shouldn’t sleep with any toys. The lube dries out and they will irritate your skin badly. There was a poster here recently that wanted to try sleeping with a toy vaginally and she posted an update that she regretted it deeply and has to go to the doctor/emergency room. I don’t have it at hand, but if someone can post it that would be great.
But long story short don’t do it.
Do not do this if it isn’t already obvious
I sleep with plugs all the time, it’s not that big of a deal. Get a lube launcher, load yourself up, then insert the plug and you should have plenty of lube for the night.
I’ve generally found that glass or metal works better for overnight because you can use silicone lube with them and then don’t need to use as much. Never use silicone lube with a silicone toy.
Living plugged just takes time and practice. If your body won’t let you sleep with it in then just wear it during the day and take it out when it starts being uncomfortable. It doesn’t take long before your body adapts to it and your sessions will last longer and you’ll be able to use larger toys if/when you’re interested.
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You say your goal is stretching, but really, that isn’t actually what is going on here. The human anus can expand up to about 8 inches. Plugs are generally to help you learn to relax the muscles (as well as provide pleasure, not going to discount that). So what is the purpose of sleeping with one? Well, not a lot actually. Some people like falling asleep with that sensation and/or waking up to it, but since the stem is what is in your sphincter, and it is pretty small, there really isn’t any stretching going on. except when inserting and removing.
The downside has been mentioned several times already. So the question is, does the benefit outweigh the risk….while some would disagree, I am going to go with no on this.