To me It’s just so boring, I know he enjoys it A lot though. He’s also kinda big so it makes my jaw hurt literally I can hear my jaw popping when I take him out of my mouth. Is there anything I can do to make it a more fun experience for me? For him I do it all as far as I know eating ass, sucking balls, kissing, moaning, using my tongue ect. When I do it I’m honestly just waiting for it to be over and it kinda turns me off.. any advice ?
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Girth too thick problem hearing your jaw pop every time the penis goes in and out. I feel bad hearing her jaw pop but her mouth feels good too. Try using more hands and kissing the tip
If he enjoys it, let him suck some dicks and get it out of his system.
If it just feels like a chore, and all you think about is how you want it to be over with…then maybe it’s best to actually not do it.
Don’t get me wrong, you wrote this post because you are looking for a way around it. The way around it COULD be to put your foot down and say *”no more!”*
But if you are a bit openminded to the idea that there maaaaay be a way forward here, it could be worth considering *what needs to change, to make you like it.*
Look at EVERYTHING.
– WHY do you do it?
Is it something you do because he asks for it? Or is it something you do because you feel that it’s expected of you? Are you coerced, or are you doing it on your own decision, despite not liking it?
– WHEN do you do it?
Is it the kind of thing that happens nearly every time you two are naked together, or is it more of a special occasions thing?
– HOW do you do it?
Is it more of an ordeal where a lot of boxes on a checklist needs to be checked, or do you have some variation in technique? Who decides on what to do? Is he asking for things, or is it all your own decision making?
– WHERE do you do it?
Is there a difference if you do it in bed or in the kitchen? Standing or lying down?
– Is it a HYGIENE thing?
Sometimes it makes a heck of a difference if he’s fresh out of the shower. Or…eh…covered in your favourite strawberry jam.
– What is HE doing while you do it?
Perhaps one of the problems is that he is subtly or obviously trying to throatfuck, and you just can’t handle it?
– What do you do with the…uh…obvious END RESULT?
If you just cannot handle getting a surprise wad of cum erupting in your mouth because both smell, taste and texture is so foul that you are about to throw up…aim outside. Aim outside.
– Are you doing it FAST? Or SLOW?
Are you doing it fast, to get it over with? Or taking your time, because it’s more comfortable for you? How much decision power do YOU have over how you do it?
– Would it make a difference if he is doing something nice FOR YOU at the same time?
Sometimes, it kind of helps to encourage and endure if you get your bits well and proper licked at the same time.
– Would it make a difference if you make it more of a domination thing?
Could it be more interesting if you surrender none of the decision power, so to speak? If he wants to be in your mouth, it can be all on your honour and your will. You decide if. You decide when. You decide how. You decide if it’s slow or fast. If it’s to completion or if it stops just as it’s getting fun. If he is going to get any, YOU will be in charge. He will get only what you want to give, and he will get EXACTLY what you want to give. Which could be very little, or quite a lot if you find it hilarious and empowering to see how you can make him squirm and beg for a release that you haven’t yet decided if he deserves to get from you.
What you are saying is that you don’t like it, and you want to give it a chance to *find a way to like it* before giving up on it for good. Look at Why, How, When, Where and so on. Ask yourself if any of these changes COULD work. If there is anything that could help you enjoy it.
Also, oh. If it’s difficult for youth physically have him in your mouth, maybe you fare better with a technique that keeps him outside your mouth?
If I’m sort of on to something, come back here and tell me what you think MAY work, and we’ll try to talk you through every aspect of it that we can come up with.
You don’t have to do it. If it isn’t something you enjoy you could just say that.
A better alternative could be to give handjobs involving your mouth if you still want to do something. Just lick his tip, balls or shaft while giving a handjob, you don’t have to put the whole penis in your mouth.
A man needs his pole smoked. If you don’t enjoy you don’t have to do it, but don’t get upset if he find someone hungry for that load.