Thumb in the ass?

16 comments

1. Don’t be a dummy, ask before you insert the thumby.

2. Maybe speak to her about it??

3. Always always ask before trying something new even if you think it’s similar to something you’ve already tried

4. Definitely ask! It’s not a nice surprise, even for someone who is experienced in butt stuff lol. Nit unless you want to get bucked off like a horse. If she’s OK with it she will need to mentally and physically be prepared.

5. Just ask if she’d like a little more ass play. I know my wife enjoys it, so if I’m doing oral, sometimes I’ll use some fingers to rub back there, if she wants me to go in, she almost always pushes against my finger to signal me to proceed… but yeah, definitely ask before trying it for the first time.

6. In addition to asking, work out a short hand where you can press your thumb against her ass and she can indicate if she wants you to stop, just keep it on the outside, or lube up and press in.

   Make sure to use lube if you press it in.

7. My husband puts a finger on the asshole and if I’m in the mood I say “uh huh yes.”

8. ALWAYS ask first, unless you have specifically and explicitly negotiated that you don’t have to.

9. The ass is permission only

10. Trim your fingernails extremely well. Having a thumb inserted feels about half as good as gentle stimulation around the opening. It’s all or nothing for me. Either filled all the way up with dick, or just on the outside. It makes me feel like i need to use the bathroom with just fingers, which isn’t fun.

11. If it blinks at you then do it !!!!! If it doesn’t try anyways lol

12. Definitely ask. For me, I will tolerate a thumb touching me. I will be mad and uncomfortable if it’s goes in.

13. I’m glad other people like a good T in the A as much as me—so naughty. I personally find it a turnoff to be asked for permission for things during sex because I prefer to feel overwhelmed and dominated by a man. But my bf and I have discussed our preferences—of course discuss yours. Just make sure it is wet, please :). Have fun!

14. You’re asking complete strangers on reddit what to do in your private life between you and your partner.

15. ALWAYS ask

16. > She said she likes it a lot,

    So next time your talking about sex:

    “I think it would be hot to put my thumb in your ass after massaging it for a while?”

    “What do you think about thumbs or sharpies in your butt?”

    “Want to get lube and try it next time?”

    Then see her reaction. If positive, next time you’ve massaged her anus for a bit “Do you think you’re ready to take my thumb slowly?” Or my conspicuously present sharpies that always appear from thin air.