Is it even really possible to stop being jealous once you already are? Should I cut my losses and dump my boyfriend?
The idea of watching him kiss or simulate intimacy with another woman actively makes me so uncomfortable I almost feel sick. It’s making me want to avoid seeing any of his work if it involves a love interest.
I really love him but I don’t know if I can get past this.
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It doesn’t bother some people, and that’s ok. It bothers you, that’s also ok. It bothered me to see or think of my actor ex doing anything with someone else, in a play he kissed someone on stage and I hated it. You can express this to him and see how he responds, gauge how you feel about his response…another option is to talk to a therapist, etc, but only you can decide if it’s a deal breaker for you. There’s no wrong answers.
Who cares. If he is actually making money as an actor, then that is amazing. Most actors broke as f*ck
You love him, just not his job.