There’s this new girl who joined school a couple days ago, I think she’s pretty cute and want to get to know her better. Should I ask her out soon or wait a bit longer? This is the part that always seems to trip me up in dating because I don’t want to seem like I’m desperate or leave it too long and get friendzoned.
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You dont need to ask for a date. You can just ask for meating each other. Date sounds “i want you to be me GF” and just wanting to hang around with someone you like is fine. Dont put yourself and others into pressure that is not necesary. I mean you want to get to know her better. I think it sounds nice if you ask “hey its nice with you would be cool if we can hang out together would like to talk to you.” Or something like that.
You can do that first day. That has nothing to do with desperation. Desperation is only manifests when you are constantly texting or calling her, offering to do things for her that she hasn’t asked for, or acting overly anxious or pushy when trying to make plans. Meaning that simply asking her out is not considered desperate even if you do it in a very short length of time.