I’m a virgin, so nothing has ever been in me before. I’ve never tried fingering myself cause i was too afraid, i don’t rlly have any knowledge on it. So could someone explain to me how to do it? And how to have an orgasm from it? And is there any thing i should expect that would surprise me if i didn’t know abt it. Just ANY advice would help.
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Wish I could help with that one. I am a guy, Another female should give the best advice.
I think you basically need to just get comfortable with yourself. Regardless of if you’re a man or a woman It’s about exploring and understanding your body. Just take your time and enjoy it.
Not a girl but I know a few things from stuff I’ve been told by my wife to make me fingering her more enjoyable.
1. Trim your nails to avoid scratching, though freshly trimmed nails can be just as bad.
2. Warm yourself up, don’t go straight into fingering. I guess you could if you have lube but a warm up makes it better.
3. Orgasms are hard to really explain in terms of “what you’ll feel” but most people who have had one can agree you know you’ve had one when you’ve had one.
4. For some women when you are close to orgasming it could feel like you might have to pee, this sometimes psychs some people out and they stop. As reassurance since you’ve never done it before maybe make sure you’re empty so if that feeling comes you know it’s not actually pee.
I guess I should have asked this before but have you masteebated before? Like not fingered but rubbed your clit
Find your g spot. It is towards the top of your vagina (on the north wall with your head acting as north). It is spongy and feels like it has ridges. This is (I think) an inner part of your clitoris. Massaging and pressing this is part of how you can orgasm from penetration. Also, maybe lay down a towel. It’s never fun to find out you’re a squirter onto your freshly made bed.😣
Here’s an important thing: you don’t need to finger yourself to enjoy masturbation if you don’t feel like it. It is indeed a different feeling I’m sure, but if you are happy with what you have now, it’s not a must. Many people have talked about the procedures so I’ll just come out and say that if in the end it fails, it’s not a big deal. Enjoy yourself the way you are comfortable with!
Masturbate only using your clit to do so. Take your time and make sure you are wet and relaxed. As you get closer to orgasm, gently push a clean finger into the vagina and feel around on the front wall, the one where your pubic hair is. See if you can find a sensitive spot somewhere on that front wall. The g spot is not an actual organ, and not every woman can feel it. After you climax from clit stim, check inside again to see if you can find a spot that feels like corduroy. See if it’s pleasurable for you. As much talk as there is about a g spot, not every woman can actually feel it or come from it. See how it feels to you, but don’t worry if you don’t feel much. Not everyone can feel a g spot-about half of women can’t, even fewer come from it. So, just go back to ole reliable, the clitoris, if you can’t manage it with interior stimulation.
First make sure your nails are not too long and have no sharp edges – this can make it a bit uncomfortable.
Next, you want some moisture – you can spit on your fingers if you don’t have lube.
Then just run your hand all over your private area until you find something that feels good. You don’t necessarily have to put anything inside but some people like putting their fingers inside their vagina, and some people like just rubbing on or around their clitoris. For me personally, the best area is just to the right of my clit.
Once you find something that feels good, just keep rubbing or touching. You may need to reapply lube/spit if you dry up, otherwise you get friction that doesn’t feel good.