What makes a man hide his past?

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1. Shame and regret

2. from whom?

3. a game called hide and seek

4. It not being your business.

5. It’s called progression

6. Noire music.

7. If he’s committed multiple cases murder

8. Sobriety and lessons learned. Restraining orders prove effective also.

9. Shame

10. In my case it’s regret and fear of being seen as extremely stupid.

11. lack of trust. Namely that he’ll be judged for it, will have it be used against him if the relationship goes sour or there’s a fight

12. By leaving it there. In the past.

13. Regret and Pity

14. Shame, regret & the terrifying prospect of forever being a social outcast.

15. You simply can’t start a conversation with:

    “By the way I was raped by my parents and brother and mother’S boyfriend.”

    “Did I tell you I wanted to kill my father?”

    “By the way, my father tried to kill me.”

    Stuff like that. I tried to tell some things in group therapy and it got a woman to a nervous breakdown when I disclosed some of the nasty details. I’m not confident with people’s ability to not get mind-raped by my childhood and I wouldn’t dare to endanger a wife’s mind.

16. Maybe shame and the fear to be judged

17. Murder charges do that to a man.

18. NDA