There is a guy I have been dating a few months and we made it official , our relationship. I do really like him..
Before when we wasn’t official yet I didn’t look into he’s social media as much as I don’t have no say cos we’re not a couple.
We are now a couple and he still follows and continue to add more pornish account (thirst traps)
I see it like he doesn’t have much self control and can easily be led by women
The majority of my male friends I had were very career driven and didn’t see the need in following these accounts especially after being with their gfs.
Some friends disagree with me but some find it disrespectful as I only follow people in my interest niche.
I feel like when your finally with someone you wouldn’t find the need to do it anymore ?
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You still don’t really have a say imo.
I wouldn’t personally feel the need to follow these accounts in a relationship or not. But I wouldn’t like a woman telling me who I can and can’t follow. If men did this to you how would you feel about it?
And just because you don’t follow attractive men doesn’t mean you should dictate following guidelines to your boyfriend.
You can ask him why he follows them have a conversation absolutely and communicate but the way you wrote it. I’d probably follow more accounts if you spoke to me like that tbh sound a little immature and insecure..