… in relevance to kissing and making out stuff. I was asking about him kissing my neck and kissing some other places that I wanted. Then I asked him what he wants and he doesn’t know what he wants or what feels good. I dont know what to do and I don’t know how I would teach him as this is kind of just a fantasy or i dont know how to try to explore what he likes. I’m glad he’s being honest, I need some advice. Btw we’re both 17
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Yk I can say something seeing as I’m 17 too just obviously with his consent try stuff see what he likes. Man’s not gonna know if he’s never experienced it. Like if you have experience try using past experiences to see if they work
Ooo thats the fun part! Generally, things that you like will also be things he likes. Where you like to be touched, kissed, etc will be the same for him.
If you’re both inexperienced then tell him you want to try new things and experiment. Take your time and communication is vital. Communicate feelings and direction “a little to the left” or “yes right there” “thats really nice” type comments.
Don’t try to make it like the movies. Nothing is ever like the movies. Learning is silly, awkward, sensual and fun so enjoy!
You try everything and see your partner’s reaction. If it is different from usual, you will know what your partner likes.
This is when you explore! Take your time, see what works, and encourage them to do the same. They might just be nervous.