Okay so this is a little explicit but i was having sex with a guy last night and i was really wet and he was stroking pretty rhythmically and then it slips out and goes into my anus.. not all the way but he’s a bit girthier than average i’d say and my anus feels almost loose? and in a little pain when i sit directly on it or cough… it’s not bleeding or ripped i don’t think but should i go to a doctor? i’m worried i don’t want a loose butthole forever??!
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You will likely be fine. Tearing hurts terribly so I think you avoided that. Yes you are probably a bit loose which will go away. I am just thankful you were really aroused and were not hurt worse.
To give you an idea I was with a girl and could tell she was very relaxed anally and I asked if if she had been playing and she admitted she had used a dildo a few hours(10) before and was shocked I could tell.
Give it a bit of time. Things to worry about are pain not just soreness, pain or difficulty in going to the bathroom either with urination or with a bowel movement or significant bleeding- mild bleeding would not be unusual due to the unplanned traumatic penetration. In certain positions especially with hard thrusting where there is a risk. I have on occasion reach down a hand over my partners anus to prevent a surprise entry.
If it does not resolve see your doctor
Take a sitz bath , epsom bath or ice bath . Ice baths are how world famous porn star Adriana Chechik heels after doing gangbangs. If it’s good enough for her, I think it might work for you.
Follow the information from the other comments but just know:
You poop all the time, does it ever get easier to poop? Poop would just fall out of your butt at any given moment if it doesn’t retighten so you can always count on your ass tightening up again unless you consistently use huge dildos and stuff
Like your vagina, your anus isn’t going to get screeched from penetration. Unless you are seeing blood in your stool or pain that doesn’t go away? It’s just probably bruised.
Relax, you’ll be fine. Take some pain meds and take an epsom salt bath. Your butthole isn’t going to be loose forever because it got poked once.
Was it an accident?
I only ask because sometimes unfortunately some men think they can try anal without consent