I’ll cut to the chase here. My(m) wife’s overweight. She’s not morbidly obese but she’s overweight and very self conscious about it. We are trying to work on this.
Since she’s gained this weight I’ve noticed a down tick on how adventurous she is in the bedroom. She use to put on lingerie sometimes but as she gained weight she stopped. She won’t let me give her oral in any way even when I offer she becomes uncomfortable. She’s always happy to provide me with oral but I’ve always been a fan of 69ing which won’t happen anymore.
Some sex positions just aren’t possible anymore due to her weight gain which is fine, however it’s gotten pretty stale recently with it being mostly missionary.
I love my wife of course and to me she’s beautiful, but no matter how much I tell her or how much I love on her she doesn’t seem to “feel” sexy.
Looking for advice on how to help her feel better about sex and feel more sexy which will hopefully lead to us having a bit more fun in the bedroom.
Thanks!
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My wife is curvy and was feeling the same way.
I started taking a lot of time to make her the center of my sexual energy and get her absolutely worn out before we start PIV.
She tells me pretty frequently that since our sex life kind of exploded, she feels a lot sexier.
Is there a reason for her weight gains?
I’m a bit chubby myself and have had this issue with my insecurities in the past. Something that always helped is my boyfriend giving me a massage, something about the doing instead of saying made a world of difference. I wish you the best of luck and hope you can work this out!
My best sexual experience was with fat woman riding me on top.I like to see those bouncing boobies.
So,try woman on top,reverse cowgirl positions.Try doggy.It is even better with fat woman.
I like to knead lumps of lard while doing it…