Me and my girlfriend (24F) have been together for four months. We really struggle with penetration. Every time the moment seems right, I either can’t get it in (trying to ‘push’) or I get nervy/wait too long and go flaccid. Can anyone help? I can get my finger in ok.

2 comments

  1. Three things come to mind – she’s not aroused enough so indulge in a lot more foreplay. Use lube. Or she actually has some sort of medical/mental situation that’s causing the tightness. The first two are the most likely. You should always use lube.

  2. If she is feeling pressured and stressed she is very unlikely going to be able to relax. I know it can be frustrating to fail to sync up, but give yourselves plenty of time. Let foreplay go as long as she needs it, and only move to PIV when she asks for it and is clearly ready.

    If it doesn’t happen, it doesn’t happen. You aren’t in a rush.

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