So per my last post, I have been struggling with finding out if I like a person. We’ve been dating and we’ve been very affectionate with each other so far and it feels like home. BUT, I feel physically unattracted to them at times. Though they meet all my emotional needs, (I often think of how he’s too good to me), I worry that I won’t find him more and more attractive as time goes on.
But last night, I had a dream that he had cheated on me. I was DEVASTATED. I woke up upset and really made me think about how I would really want him in my life rather than someone else have him.
The lack of attraction is an issue. I find him about 70% physically attractive but hope it grows.
Will it? Has anyone else gone through this?
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Hey how long have you been dating for? I had this at the beginning of my relationship slightly but now i cant even remember why i thought that. Love is blind lol. Also looked fade what’s important is personality and when u love someone they just get so much hotter
Im struggling to see what you mean by attractive.
Do you mean physically?
Attraction definitely grows like i used to feel that way ab my bf and now i cant even remember why literally so attracted to him now