I’m about to have sex for the 2nd time ever (19f)

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1. the important is your feeling be ready

2. Have a drink. Just one, I’m not talking fall-over-drunk lol. Little dutch courage never hurt anyone. Always helped me just take that tiny bit of the edge off to where I could relax.

3. If you have to prepare maybe you aren’t really up for it? Sex should come naturally and organically…if that’s not happening maybe postpone a bit and let it build up to it.

4. Just relax and enjoy the ride.

5. Pain means stop, always. Listen to your body, communicate that to your partner. If they don’t get physically defensive and **leave**. Wish I didn’t have to add that last part, but too many horror stories…

   Consent means an enthusiastic “yes”. Anything less is a hard “no”.

   There is such thing as “too much foreplay”, but humanity has not yet discovered this limit. Don’t be afraid to take your time, or ask for more attention.

   Bring supplies! Lube, tissues, condoms, and water (to drink) are all on my list.

   Have fuuuuun!

6. Be open and honest with your partner. If they’re a good person they’ll 100% understand and accommodate your nervousness.

7. Relax, take it slow, keep good communication with your partner

8. Well use an enema on your ass if you want anal