Do men lose respect for women who have sex on the first date? Just curious because i started talking to this guy that I like, then I had sex with him the first time I met him in person. I just really like sex 🤷🏻‍♀️ But my friends always tell me I need to wait longer..

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  1. You do what makes you happy.

    But I really mean what makes YOU happy. Because it you want to wait to have sex only so that he will respect you, you are basing your actions on what you imagine he will think of you. Do whatever you want as long as you are safe, sane, consensual and honest about it. If he loses respect for you because you had sex on the first date 1) he needs to look in the mirror because by his definition he is not worthy of respect either, and 2) you dodged a bullet because he thinks women should have less sex than men, run away!

    If you want to wait to have sex because YOU want to get to know the guy you are having the sex with better first, then do what YOU want – whatever makes you happy.

  2. It’s really a bit of a crapshoot. One of my longest relationships involved sex on the first date and she actually lost her virginity that night. We dated for three years and we’re friends long enough to where I was a bridesman in her wedding. Her husband had a grooms woman so no big deal. I also dated a girl and we waited about four months before sex and it fell apart within a week after.

  3. I’ve only ever had sex on the first date twice.

    I dated the first girl for 5 years and had a baby with her, I married the second one and we’ve been together 8 years and had two more kids.

    It’s just a stupid game that if he feels the need to play it and act shitty or that you’re lesser for it? Says more about him than you

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