Does the sex in one of your longer term relationships stand out more than others? Or was it all equally good but different

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1. The only differences I can think of are kinks. More and more got added to the repertoire as I got older, creating differences and varying intensity of pleasure. If I’m honest most of my partners were pretty meh in the bedroom, until my latest partner. Hope that helps lol

2. Some were much more enthusiastic than others at that makes a huge difference.
   Some were more interested in longer sessions.
   Some were more able to handle positions I really enjoy.
   Those were all good things.

3. Obviously sex in longer term relationships are better. You talk kinks and explore more. Sex in short term relationships/hookups are okay. Definitely feels good at the time of the event but not very memorable. I wouldn’t call it good/bad, just different.

4. I’ve had a generous lover and a selfish lover, which were very different experiences.

5. I had one relationship that was a perfect match in libido, variety, timing and mental connection that will live forever in my memory. Most of the rest was much of a muchness. A couple of times were pretty bad.

6. The best sex I’ve ever had was sex with partners I wasn’t supposed to be having sex with. Clarifying, we were age appropriate, consenting adults. I just mean to say that the circumstances were sketchy. The longer I continued having sex with these partners over the course of time, the better it got, regardless of whether we were together.

   There is something satiating about having sex with someone you love, but I have found that partners in which I’ve put the time into generally produce better sex. Hookups leave me wanting.