She said she has no emotions at the moment and so I asked when she thinks she’ll be emotionally available again and she said maybe in a few months. I said haha what a coincidence I will be then too. She then said she wants to be single and doesn’t want to have a relationship for the wrong reasons and wants independence etc. I said wow that’s really admirable.
This is just flat out rejection right? I wasn’t very clear but I guess I did make it known that I’d be interested to date her in the future. I’m not looking for friendship so do I cut my losses and move on?
I was slightly confused since she has been quite flirty and we’ve met up a few times and she has been wanting to meet up for a lot of other activities too, shall I just quit messaging her and move on?
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Yes, it’s a rejection. Your way of hitting on her is insecure and desperate. If you like a girl, ask her out on a date. Don’t ask about her feelings – it’s way too soon for that. You can ask her about her feelings after several dates
Yeah it’s pretty cut and dry rejection.
You sound predatory.
Leave her alone. She’s not interested.
Is this your ex-girlfriend you posted about 4 days ago that you’re still not over, or is this someone else you want to be in a relationship with?
Flat rejection. Don’t ask again. You had a very strange way of going about it, but as long as you respect her no, it’s fine.
“I don’t want a relationship” means “I don’t want a relationship with you”