A couple months ago I met someone on an app to make new friends. We hit it off and eventually met in person. Since that moment we talk every day.
The problem is that I’ve tried to meet again, but everytime she cancels last minute or is very vague about it. It really bothers me because she keeps saying that she likes me and wants to meet again. I don’t understand it. If she’s busy that’s fine, but tell me so that I know.
I have asked her about this and then she says that she likes me and wants te meet. So she suggested this weekend and she will let me know about the time. Yesterday I still didn’t know when or where, so I asked. Again she gave me a very vague answer. I don’t know what to do know. I feel that we have a connection and we talk a lot, but the meeting thing and being vague about it is really bothering me.
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be direct.
ask why she does not want to set a time to meet.
because while there may be legit reasons, those with legit reasons usually.. checking notes.. share those reasons.
and this is veering on pattern or practice territory, meaning that this keeps happening with the same song and dance.
she seems to be stringing you along, and this is making me think this is a long play romance scam based on the narrative.
please prove me wrong. i really want to be wrong on this.