Date(M 21)says it would be better if I (F 21)didn’t dress so revealingly. red flag?

Hello 🙂 I (F 21) wrote to my crush (M 21) 2 weeks ago, with whom I have not been in contact for 5 years. We have met 3 times to date, once for billiards, once for a walk and then a gym date and then to watch movies. Everything was super nice up to that point and he was also really respectful and very polite. I really like everything about him. We already had our first kiss on the first date

Now the problem is that everything went great today. For once I wore pants, I usually only wear skirts. And everything was great at his house, we watched a movie. After that we made out a bit and you could tell that he was very respectful when it came to my body. A no is a no, no persuasion, no guilt tripping, which I had before.

Then came the conversation what are we actually. And for both of us it was clear we are just getting to know each other and not yet in a relationship. Would be too quick for both of us. But at the same time he also asked me if I was looking for something serious because he didn’t feel like just something short, but something long. So up to that point everything was normal.

Then we talked about no-gos and also about important things like meeting the opposite sex, which is OK in itself, but that you should tell the others because of respect for your partner. I think 100% and then he also said that he doesn’t like it when his girlfriend dresses in revealing clothes because he’s afraid that other men will look or even bother me. I love wearing skirts, but I don’t mind wearing pants either. He said he would also be ok to find compromises, for example a skirt with thicker Pantyhose or something. He has repeatedly said that he doesn’t think it’s the women’s fault, but that there are really disgusting guys out there.

Yes, I have no problem with doing him the favor because I like him. Really really like him and it fits great. He’s a great guy. And my style looks just as cute with or without a skirt. I also have some ideas and as long as I can reflect my creativity in my clothes, it’s no problem.

But the point is that it sounds to me like a precursor to banning. Out of respect for my partner, I don’t think there’s anything about allowing certain things to be. Wouldn’t want him to always walk around with his upper body uncovered. But that really gave me a bit of a queasy feeling. Just as he only brought me to the train station at 9 p.m. in the evening. So I don’t mind driving alone, he usually rides his bike to work and has to pay for rent, the gym and of course the basic things. A ticket would be of course too expensive in the long run

But it’s about this “guys are dangerous, be careful” and “you can go the rest of the way alone” if he had asked me I would probably have said cut it out. It’s a long way away and so we’re both grown up. But it’s about the courtesy of at least asking. Don’t make a fuss about it now. But there are 2 things that I noticed very negatively and I don’t know if I should rate them as red flags.

I think the rest is good and fits great. Especially when we talked about it and set limits and I find everything very mature and right and important. But somehow I find the other two things a bit sus. Even if I say it’s better to say something early than late.

What do you think about things. Is it a reason not to enter into a relationship or would it not be a reason for you. I’m honestly a bit overwhelmed with that

Tldr: my date sayed to me that he doesn’t like his partner to wear revealing cloth because he doesn’t want me to get Harassed. Idk what to think about it