So my boyfriend really loves when I touch his balls or lightly suck on them. Tho when I see things online I mostly see men talking about how much they hate having their balls even touched.
Recently my boyfriend has been asking that instead of giving him a blow job sometimes, I instead suck on his balls while giving him a hand job until him comes. Can someone explain to me what this even feels like and why he would like it so much? I enjoy pleasuring him and don’t mind it at all, I actually think it’s hot, but was just curious as I can’t really understand the pleasure he’s receiving from this to the point he would take it over a blowjob at times?
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It’s a great feeling for sure, you just have to be gentle if you get too rough it can get uncomfortable
I’m sure it’s neat.
As a guy, when I see porn in which the woman sucks the entire testicle into their mouth I just wince…that has got to hurt. My one experience with it was indeed painful, and short 🙂
I do on the other hand enjoy that entire area being stroked, fondled and licked. Just be careful with the boys.
People are different though so for someone else maybe it’s a pleasant experience.
It’s scary with a new partner, you don’t know how delicate they are going to be. I jumped the first time she sucked on them.
I’ve had someone do that to me. Didn’t do much for me ngl
Ive seen only men that love it so i was shocked when my bf absolutely hated it. Theyre super sensitive so i guess they can feel alot of pleasure from them (maybe like in a way women may like their nipples to be played with)or for some theyre so sensitive its just painful
My husband doesn’t like his sucked or even touched, which is such a shame because I love doing it 😭
It’s ok but slightly uncomfortable, those things are sensitive.
I love it. It’s more sensitive and the fine dividing line between pleasant and painful makes it a very intimate thing to (allow someone to) do.
But just like with women and vulvas, individual men appear to be really wired differently. And fear will always reliably stop any sensation of pleasure dead in its tracks.
I don’t know what you found online but I love having my balls and taint (GENTLY) fondled, licked, sucked, but it’s not going to “get the job done” by itself. It’s pleasurable as a way to enhance the experience and/or give you a rest, especially if you continue with some hand action upstairs while you’re doing it, but I’m guessing it might be similar to having your outer lips licked and sucked. But definitely no twisting when playing with the boys only fondling, lifting, or gentle tugging.
It doesn’t do a whole lot. Maybe like having your neck kissed. It’s a nice feeling when done gently, seductively. Like neck, you want to pay attention to it, it can be pleasant, but it shouldn’t really be a center of focus. I think people forget porn is fantasy and not necessarily reality. I think they go way overboard in sucking on a guys balls in pirn sometimes. I mean OUCH!!!. Be gentle.
As far as your guy really liking this. Sounds more like a fetish than something all guys would prefer. But if he likes and you don’t mind doing it, then alls good.
I love it. When I first had it done to me, it was little scary, because they are fragile. But I think I’ve grown to tolerate it more now.
She loves doing it and she’ll even tell you that it’s best when I’m fresh out of the shower
It f’n hurts! Porn lies!
It’s amazing.
It is tickly
I have a feeling its more that he likes your hand jobs more than your blow jobs and this is his nice way of asking for it.
Everyone is different! Talk to him about what he wants. Try different things and ask him if he likes it. Actively communicate while you’re going down on him and you’ll find out.
Pretty difficult to describe it to someone who doesn’t have testicles. For me, it feels great. I like the wet, the warmth… all of it. Some guys are very sensitive and can’t stand it. It will 100% vary by guy.
I personally love it, but my balls are pretty tough. Lots of men can’t even take anything but a light touch though.
It’s a huge turn on and I’d say the very best blowjobs involve some licking or sucking of the balls at some point. Being soft and gentle is key. They need to be treated really carefully. It’s not really about getting a sensation from working the tongue for me, they’re not sensitive in the way that the tip of the cock is. For me it’s the temperature change and the sight of your woman desiring you to that level, cradling your life giving balls in her soft wet mouth. Try licking his balls, blowing on them for a moment so they feel cold, then taking them one by one in your warm mouth.
It’s a nice break during a bj, nd what I mean is, when your about to get in the zone to nut, she goes to my balls so I can recover a little….feels awesome but not enough to put me over the edge
I *love* having my balls rubbed, tickled, scratched, and licked. And the *idea* of having them sucked is a huge turn-on. But the *reality* is that it hurts like hell. YMMV
It feels really good if it’s done gently. Maybe not even sucked, but licked. Too rough or sucked too hard is painful. My wife does this enthusiastically every time she blows me and I really enjoy it.
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