What should one not do on a first date?

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  2. talk about your ex unless it comes up and you both feel like complaining

    talk about your life challenges unless it comes up and you both feel like complaining

    make unwanted physical contact

    negging

    make your date listen to you vent

    arrive late, or too early

    shower your date with compliments (something like “you look nice” is plenty)

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    things like that.

  3. Take them to a movie theater. The purpose of the first date is to talk. Watching movies does not let you do that.

    Also, this is my opinion, but don’t do a fancy restaurant at all. Just coffee is also fine. You have no idea who she is yet nor does she know of you. Let that first date be a time to get a sense of the vibes. If it goes well, then do a restaurant after

  6. Movies are a bad idea and obviously be yourself but at the same time don’t be the worst version of yourself if you will.

  7. Pick your fingernails showing your nervous. Seen a dude do that once when I was at a restaurant with my date and the girl straight up said he was disgusting and left. Me and my date at the time just shook our heads

  8. there was that girl who kept playing her mobile game for half of the date when we were at the cafe

    it was genshin or something i am not sure.

    i mean i like video games too, i play a lot of call of dragons in bluestacks when i’m at home

    but i wouldn’t do it on my first date, if you’re that uninterested in me then just tell me and let’s end this, no?

  9. Expect to let one person lesd the convo. The convo is lead by both. If one offers replies in such a no possible followup manner
    That date aint goin well no matter how hard the other tries.

  13. Dinners.

    You don’t want to spend ~2 hours on a dinner first date with a someone you don’t click with.

    Only idiots do and they think ”I’m going to take her to a fancy restaurant to impress her”. Fuck that.

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