I 22M met 19F through a summer job. We study at different colleges in the same city. I didn’t talk to her a lot during the summer job until the last few weeks and she invited me to study with her & friends at the college.
I took her up on it about a month after the job finished. We all had a great time as far as I could tell.
I messaged her about a week later. We chatted a bit but she has been pretty slow to reply, like 8 hours or so typically. I know she is single though.
I know it is not advisable to get attached to someone you aren’t yet even dating but I really like her.
I have no idea whether to ask her out at this stage or play the long game. I am willing to risk wasting some time that could otherwise be spent chasing other women.
I just want to give it my best shot.
Any advice on how long to wait or how to proceed would be amazing!
Thank you
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If you like her and are feeling some interest shoot your shot. Probably no real advantage of playing the long game. You are correct in your post. Don’t waste your time and energy on her if she’s not interested. Find out if she’s interested sooner rather than later. The reality is any reasonably attractive girl on a college campus has other guys talking to her/interested or she’s talking to other guys. You just as well find out if she’s interested or not otherwise she’ll be with some other dude next week and you will regret not taking your chance. Don’t waste time hung up on her while passing on other prospects.
Ask her out and find out.