So we had three amazing dates. We had a great laugh, conversation, vibe, everything. We share lots of values and traits. It was a no brainer.
And now the texting is not enthusiastic as before and on our regular hanging out day, I wasn’t asked out. Does this mean it’s time for me to move on? They mentioned that they are shy and seems a little too afraid of rejection, so could it be the reason? Should I be making the move? Or they are just “not that into me”?
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You should make the move if you feel like everything went smoothly in the previous dates
As someone who is also ‘shy and afraid of rejection’, that’s your cue. If I was vulnerable enough to put that out there within 3 dates, I would expect my partner to be considerate enough to pick up on that and take the initiative.
I attended an all girls school, and we had to ask our dates to the various dances and dinners etc. I say if you’re really interested, make the move. And that way you also know you did all you could. They are usually pretty flattered.