I just started dating someone and I’ve had sex with them twice and I can tell that it’s 90% likely that he’s going to make me squirt at some point as I get more comfortable and “let go” so to speak. At my place I don’t really care about the mess, I have a mattress cover, but idk if I should warn him, especially if we’re at his place.
I’m not concerned about him not finding it hot or fine at the very least, I just feel like it’s courteous to warn them to get a towel.
What would you want someone to say, if anything?
I want to say it in a sexy and affirming way more then an embarrassing confession.
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Either you tell him or not, he will absolutely love that about you and would want you soo much more!!
If it were in my place, I’d want a warning before we get too heated. If it’s not in my place, it would be a pleasant surprise as long as the first time it happens is a healthy distance from my face. Don’t want to get surprise water-boarded.
Oh my god he’s gonna be so excited. When I squirted the guy was so fucking excited so you could either warn him or you could just surprise him
As a guy, I’d like a woman to let me know that she squirts. I have waterproof pads for such a situation.
I once hooked up with a woman that was a squirter but she didn’t tell me. It’s sucked having to wash all my bedding.
Warning is definitely a good thing. I was nearly drowned by a woman that thought she couldn’t squirt with a partner
Doesn’t really matter how you tell they but seriously you really should
Definitely give a warning. Not everyone enjoys the thought of urea.
If it were me?
You: “Hey, can I show you something?”
Me: “Yes, sure”.
You: “Pull your penis out.”
…(later)
Me: “Want to get married.”
lol.
I would be pretty impressed but would ask you to prove it…daily 🙂
Don’t say nothing before hand. Make it at your place, so that you could remark: “look at what you did to me”, as opposed to: “before we start, there’s something you should know”
The first would make it like something *he* achieved, as opposed to something *you* happen to be capable of doing
You need to be careful about leaking this information.
Most guys have a squirt kink 🤷 I doubt he’d be upset if you didn’t tell him and it wasn’t at his place. I really wouldn’t care where it happened the first time but apparently some guys hate doing laundry
As a man, I’d definitely want to give a heads up. It’s also abit of a turn on for me . Maybe bring it up during flirting or sexy talk ?
Warning is good, it is actually a turn-on for the man
I didn’t have the opportunity of telling my first love since we both experienced it together. I have told other partners prior to us being intimate but now I’m back with my first love. We were both beyond happy discovering I have multiple orgasms to such depths. I suggest you tell him it’s not nice to ruin his bedding or risk it.
A warning is probably decent, like putting a towel down. And if he doesn’t care, he’ll let you know.
I brought it up to my partner pretty early on. Just say to them that you have squirted before, you will likely squirt again and that it may be a good idea to have mats/waterproof bed sheet/towel down before any play in the bedroom. Not the nicest soaking his sheets and him having to wash them all after
Plz lmk😅 Its not a turn off -or a turn on🤷♂️-for me but yeah I wanna kno what to expect if squirting is a regular thing. Just say “oh, I may be squirting btw” 🙃
I’d tell them personally, I know it was a huge suprise when my husband hooked up with a girl who squirted and didn’t say anything. Hotel blankets got soaked and was not a fun thing afterwords with no blankets for the night.
I’m on team “tell it”. Maybe you could just ask him if he has waterproof bedding or if you should bring your own next time you plan to hook up.