So should I gray stone this new neighbor?

So a new neighbor moved in 2 houses down, the Bs, and I have been friendly with her and got her cell phone number. She told me she and her hubby have gotten close to the Gs, across the street from her. The Gs and the Bs are always hanging out and she tells me via text that they are over at each other’s house, drinking and sitting around a bon fire all the time. So earlier today, I get a text from her asking to go shopping together. I said no but come over at 5pm we are grilling out. She says ok! And asks what she should bring. Then like 5 min before coming she says she is sorry but she can’t come because she feels bad that I didn’t invite the Gs! Like, I don’t know the Gs and I don’t have the Gs phone number and my husband has talked to the Gs 0 times so now she is judging us for not inviting the Gs over. But she invites the Gs over to her house without us, and the Gs invite the Bs over and they never invite us so should I just gray stone her? What kind of stupid game is this lady playing? Like I feel she emotionally just played with me and she totally won.