Lately for my group of friends something has felt…off. Barely anyone would speak to me in group hangouts, no one would engage with me in conversation beyond a sentence or two, hell a few of my friends won’t even look me in the eye.
I found out they all went out tonight together…without me. I feel so defeated. I thought I finally found a good group of friends, but that is clearly not the case.
This is not even the first time this has happened. This happened with my group of high school friends as well. They’re all still really close. There’s clearly something wrong with me at the core.
I just don’t understand what I’m doing wrong. I’m so devastated right now. There’s clearly something wrong with me and I don’t know what to do.
How do I identify what I’m doing wrong? How do I change myself to be a likeable person? I am so lost. Any help would be appreciated.
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I feel like this is near impossible to answer based on this post alone. I think one would have to meet you in person and spend some time with you to figure out if anything was “wrong” (and there might not be anything wrong! Perhaps you got unlucky and were just incompatible twice in a row. It can happen) are you in college right now? Or do you have any access to counselling?