So, I met this girl in middle school, and have been in very loose contact since sophomore year in high school.
about a month ago we have started texting and calling non-stop. I do feel crazy about her, and vice versa however, she has really put me out of my comfort zone.
She regularly tries to turn me on by saying very suggestive things, she also somehow knows where I work though I have not told her ( granted, if anyone knew my irl name, they could easily find out given my profession)
I don’t know if this is normal or not because I’ve never had a romantic relationship before this.
Another thing that could be a contributing factor to all of this is that I left the Mormon church fairly recently, and definitely has had an impact on how I perceive relationships, though I have unlearned some things I was taught.
I honestly do not want to end this relationship. She is the best friend I have ever had, and pretty much my only light in my world.
TL;DR
Gf and I have been together for a week, but she is very pushy as far as boundaries go. I don’t want to give this up, but don’t know how to proceed
Ps: sorry for awful formatting, as I typed this on mobile.
1 comment
Too far, too fast. Back off the gas pedal a bit! I wouldn’t even call somebody a “girlfriend” after just a week, that’s usually (in my experience) something that you label after you’re been dating a while. At this point, you’ve got somebody humping your leg and already claiming ownership.
Slowwwww down.