what should I do

6 comments

1. Ask him.

2. Just talk to him, we won’t be able to answer on his behalf

3. Do you use toys while alone?

4. You should just ask but if you are worried you can phrase it in a way so that it seems like you want a new exciting experience in the bedroom

5. You should ask him. You deserve a sexually fulfilling life

   Couple pointers

   1. Ask outside of the bedroom (less intimidating)
   2. Stress how you want the toys to be used WITH HIM. Make him seem more important than the toys. He might feel hurt. The more you emphasize using them WITH him the better
   3. Be okay if he responds a bit negatively. People can be hurt, or feel not enough. He might have a kneejerk reaction initially. Give him some time to process. And don’t be afraid to revisit the issue

6. literally talk to him about it… we can’t tell u anything. learn to communicate w ur words to ur partner