We are having a bit difficult situation with gf. Sex in very rare and she’s lacking trust because of the words I have said, which I didn’t mean and which I regret. The situation has been going for three months now.
However we are doing kinda ok, we have communication and we love each other. And I’m working on myself to fix the issues I’m having that reflects to the relationship.
Soon she’s going to have a few days girls trip to a place I know many guys will hit on her and it’s ok. It’s a place where many people cheat. Been there myself sleeping with taken girls.
Because of our situation, she probably will not be rejecting any guys because she’s happy with the relationship she’s having with me atm, and because of that my thought is; why would she even reject any guys?
Am I just over-thinking this? Am I just insecure guy?
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honestly, been in similar situations, if you think she is truly happy with the relationship you shouldn’t have these insecurities.
Maybe voice your insecurities to her, if she doesn’t respect them or reassure you, and still goes, I would just leave while you can 🙂
Relationships are so tough
I mean its not great…
It doesn’t sound healthy… I mean you are insecure but you also are a realist.
Why are you together ?