I (28f) am dating a guy(32) who is an amazing fella. But, I think I’m falling in love with his penis more then himself. I find myself planning our next sex session before our actual date. I just truly enjoy spending time with his penis. It’s shape, it’s size. I find myself actually making out with it while giving him head….just admiring it.

I’m starting to feel guilt. Because he asked me if I’m really enjoying him or just the sex nd I couldn’t figure out a good answer for him. How shitty of a gal am I?

28 comments

  1. If you’re truly all about his penis and not so much him as a person then maybe it’d be best to let him find someone that does and get yourself a toy lol

  2. If youre not being honest with him, then yeah kinda shitty.

    He doesnt have to mind you only wanting sex, but he deserves to have the informed consent of that so he can decide if he wants to move on to someone who wants him, not just his dick. And you can find a casual partner or get a toy.

  4. it seems very disingenuous that you describe him as an amazing fella and all you think about is his dick. so id say, figure it out and tell him so he can decide what he wants.

  8. you can always answer “Do I have to choose just one?”

    I’ve always had a harder time finding someone with a libido to match my own than someone that’s into me as much as I’m into them. So in my case that would be an awfully hot answer.

  12. I sometimes think my GF is exactly in the same situation as you are.
    She for sure enjoyed using and pleasing my dick, emptying my balls and asking me to make her cum with my hands, but almost everything else is rather complicated. 😮‍💨🤷‍♀️
    I love her anyway. 😊

  15. I’m in the exact situation with a FWB who is falling in love with me. I can’t get enough of his dick. The size.. the way he uses it.. he hits all these spots internally that I never knew existed.. his sex drive is high like mine. We have sex is usually twice at night then in the morning he wakes me up with his dick. It’s the most amazing thing ever. Our sexual chemistry is out of this world and he’s extremely passionate lover.

    However he doesn’t mentally stimulate me at all. Hes broke and has zero ambition in life. Throw in a pill addiction and victim mentality. Outside of sex he gives me major ick. I tried to break up with him last week but I was having dick withdrawal basically 😞 so that didn’t last longer than a couple days. Idk what the answer is. I’ve never been so horny in my life and I’m not ready to give it up. I’ve explained to him that this all will lead to him getting hurt and my feelings aren’t in it. he says he’s okay with that but A couple weeks ago he was sobbing over the situation 😞🤦‍♀️ idk my only advice is to be as honest as possible I guess

  16. How shitty of a guy would you consider him to be if he only loved your pussy, but the rest of you was just an “amazing gal, but damn! That pussy!”?

  17. You’re in lust with him, not in love. I know you won’t, because woven naturally aren’t in these situations, but be honest with him and let him decide if he wants to stay with someone who is only in it for his dick. I’m sure he’d appreciate being loved for more than that.

  19. It is important to recognize that sexual attraction and emotional connection are two separate things. While it is normal to have physical preferences and enjoy sex, it is also crucial to consider the emotional connection in a relationship.

    If you find yourself primarily focused on your partner’s genitals rather than on their overall being, it may be a sign that you are prioritizing physical pleasure over an emotional connection. It’s essential to communicate your feelings to your partner honestly and kindly, acknowledging your attraction but also expressing your desire for a more profound emotional connection.

    It’s okay to enjoy sex, but it’s also important to consider whether you are truly happy in your relationship and whether you and your partner share the same goals and values. If you find that you are not as emotionally invested in the relationship, it may be time to re-evaluate your feelings and decide whether this is the right relationship for you.

  20. I was with a chick line you in 2001. Some of the best sex I’ve ever had. NGL, it was great. But her thing was sex in “risky” places, anal, face sitting, throat fucking, etc… towards the end her thing was more about taking pictures of my cock inside her, or gaping her ass and wanting to see pics of my cum going inside.

    The only real problem was that the conversation was lacking, her musical tastes really annoyed TF out of me, and towards the end, she talked way too much about politics.

  21. Imagine if the roles were reversed and he was just using you for sex while pretending he still loves you for you. You should be honest with him, maybe you guys can sort out a fwb kinda thing with no strings attached or feelings involved?

  23. I mean to me there’s nothing wrong with being attracted to someone’s sex/fuck more than them but it has to be known and said just so that there is no confusion and if said person is or isn’t uncomfortable about the situation?

  24. So do you see yourself as FWBs with this guy? If a girl proposed that because she was in love with my schvantz I’d at least consider it.

    What is with the answers here? I live under a rock and I’m the only one proposing this?

  26. normal, most guys in their 20s-30s would have sex 2-3 times a day if their girl was perma dtf… as long as u see the relationship as having potential, there’s nothing wrong with this. & honestly the most successful relationships have great sexual compatibility & matching sex drive. a lot of other stuff is important, shared hobbies & goals etc… but it’s incredible how long a relationship can survive on good sex alone

  27. Don’t figure our a good answer. Give him an honest one. If you’re in it for his dick more than his personality than that’s the true answer and he deserves that at bare minimum.

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