I (27f) have been hooking up w/ a guy (30m) regularly for about 4 months. We usually do some kind of rotation of me on top, him on top/seashell, & doggy every time we have sex. I’m into it, but I worry that it’s boring for him… Sooo, do y’all get bored? What are your favorite positions?

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  1. Heyy… yes!!! I do my SO only likes missionary and cowgirl and it really does get boring . She’s unfortunately not too keen to explore and when suggested she mentioned that she’s not that into it . Sucks

  2. To answer your second question, fav positions are doggie, prone bone, reverse cow girl.

  3. Female here. We love doggy, prone bone, pile driver, missionary, cowgirl, and heck just about anything that involves him being inside me.

  4. We (Me male, her female) switch it up. Missionary occasionally, doggy, cowgirl. She doesn’t like 69 either which is a shame but I respect it.

    I really want to try doggy with her behind me instead (wink wink) but I haven’t brought it up so far.

  6. We alternate through lots of positions though we have a few favorite gotos. Doggy, reverse cowgirl, 69.

  7. IDK the name of this, but it’s a new favorite. It’s like if reverse cowgirl and doggy had a baby, sort of. I’m a cishet lady so that’s how I’ll describe it, but it would definitely work for other pairs as well.

    Him: sitting in a somewhat reclined position, soles of his feet flat on the bed with bent knees.

    Me: on all fours. I slide my feet and calves under his knees and back up to him. He’s angling his cock at my slit until I’ve backed up enough to get him inside me, then he can let go and relax while I ride in that position.

    I love it because he gets a show, it feels incredible to me to please/serve him this way while he gets to sit back and relax, he has ready access to spank me at will, if I get up on my knees he can easily reach my tits, it’s easily modifiable for anal, and it’s reasonably easy to switch to true doggy whenever he wants to take over.

    It’s also a little bit different sensation because the angle is so different. Because his cock is aimed more “downward” than in other positions, and most of them aim toward the belly button when they’re hard, it creates a pressure where the cock is trying to angle upward from inside you.

    It’s just all around great.

  8. Pretzel is my favorite followed by the nun. Easier for me to have control and I can go harder/faster than reverse cowgirl.

  9. We never get bored of doing the same 4 or 5 positions, but we also incorporate other stuff like toys, lingerie, handcuffs, porn on the tv, etc. so it’s never boring 😋

  11. I was going to say doggy but you take one hand “gently” around her throat and kind of pick her up to you and kiss her. I took a chance and tried to send a couple and they found it the hottest thing ever!

    If she thinks doggies degrading then maybe don’t try that.

  12. Doing the same thing absolutely can get boring but that really depends on the two people in the relationship. I’ve had a lot of sex so I get bored rather quickly but different people feel differently. If I get bored then I just do something different because being bored is my fault-not hers.

  13. Nah. It’s sex, getting tired of the few main positions would be odd

    Could fuck my wife doggystyle eveytime and I don’t think i’d get tired of seeing/grabbing that ass

  14. Umm, why don’t you ask the guy himself? You’re not too shy to rub your parts together for four months but too shy to have a convo about it.
    Do you guys even talk?

  15. Yes, I do.

    Married 20+ years, and my wife is only into missionary or, once in a blue moon, riding.

    My favorite position? I dunno. Anything other than missionary, I suppose.

    Kidding aside, our marriage and sex life are good. This is one thing I wish was different.

  16. I get bored with them but only when I am not actually having sex in that moment, if that makes sense.

    For example, my wife has insisted on nothing but doggy for almost 2 years after having our 3rd kid, something to do with hip pain. When I think about having sex, I am annoyed that I am stuck with one position right now.

    But when I am actually doing it, it’s like who cares, this is the best thing in the universe.

    It’s really weird and a bit irritating to obsess about the kind of sex I am not having, only to apparently enjoy it just fine the way it is! I guess it’s a good thing.

  17. Idk, I just freestyled it sometimes. Pretty sure I hit positions that I don’t know the name of. Wonder if it’s the ADHD in me, lol.

  19. Most of the other positions are good only for little periods of time, and become exhausting to some extent to one of the partners. And my wife being on top never gets boring for either of us. But we try all kinds of positions, and most are fun, but most arent good till completion, but rather just small amounts of time, then one of the age old positions are used to finish, 🙂

  20. I love when he sits in a chair and I face him and ride him. It’s easier on my legs and hits areas I don’t get when I ride him while he lays down.
    I also love to ride him slowly and sensually while he sits up in bed; we get so close, I can feel his breath on my neck and if I grind back and forth I get clit simulation.

  21. Guy here. No, some variety I think is required, only missionary or only doggy might get boring eventually. But I don’t need to start working my way through the Kama Sutra to not be bored in bed.

  22. Ok so I don’t know what this is called, maybe a twisted spoon?

    In a spooning position once he’s inside me I throw one leg over his hips and bend all the way forward so that we’re almost scissoring. I hold onto his leg and use it to thrust him deeper into me. I can also fully grind all over him and the clit stimulation is intense. I don’t even know where my other leg is at this point, lmao.

  23. Not really there can be a lot of variation and change to each individual position. They all feel fairly different depending on how he or I are doing stuff. So during missionary depending on how he is positioned he could hit or reach totally different spots and obviously I could do some other stuff to help make it slightly different.

  24. Not really. I’ve been with my wife for decades and we’ve added a few things here & there, but still tend to favor the classics: missionary, cowgirl (my fav), & doggy (her fave). We know each other so well that we can usually only use 2 positions any given session. Sometimes it might only even be one, but that’s not disappointing in any way.

  25. (If you both are capable) you lay on your back on the edge of the bed, he stands between your legs. You wrap your legs around his waist, he leans over you and you wrap your arms around the back of his neck. He firmly holds each of your butt cheeks, leans back, and stands up. It’s then super easy for you to support yourself and for him to support you, and he gets realll deep. Favorite position, no question. And if you stay near the edge of the bed you can both flop over together when you’re done pissing off the neighbors 🙂

  28. I (65m) have been with my wife (68f) for 20 years. We do about 80% missionary, 20% doggy. Maybe once or twice a year we’ll do something more exotic. Every single time is exciting and wonderful. Nothing boring about it.

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