They called as I was about to leave. She was crying and told me she had to cancel. When I asked what was up she said that her anxiety was acting up and she couldn’t do it. She had mentioned it before and told her it was cool we could try again whenever she was ready.
Later that night I texted her to see if she was alright but got left on read. The next day I remembered you could watch movies on Instagram and texted her on there to see if she was down. We had planned on going to the movies so I thought this was a nice alternative. After about 5 hours or so I went to check my DM’s and realized she blocked me. Idk if I was blocked when I first messaged her or not however. I texted her number and as of today it just says delivered.
The night before the date we were texting about how we couldn’t wait to meet. We were on the phone for an hour 30 minutes before the time I said I would leave. I guess I’m especially upset because this would have been my first date. I just don’t know where I went wrong. I don’t think I said anything wrong in my last message I sent, I can send screenshots if need be. I don’t think I’m saying anything wrong.
I’m debating texting her on the dating app we met on b as I don’t think she’s blocked me on there. Snapchat also sent me a recommendation to add her because she’s in my contacts. I think I should just let it die here though but at the same I’m curious on what went wrong. Just a few days ago someone who ghosted me texted me back replying to my message. When I asked where they been for the last 2 weeks they said “idk” “I have a boyfriend”. I kinda assumed that’s what happened but it was still somewhat nice to know for sure I suppose.
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Sounds like you were patient and genuinely concerned for her. From what you describe, you haven’t done anything wrong. I would leave it as is and move on. Doesn’t sound like she is in a good place to be dating.
Lillei offered great advice. Sometimes the weight of trying to meet or even talk to someone can be too much. If you message again just do it once and say I am here if you ever wanna chat, and no judgment at all on my end. Hope to hear from you. And wish you the best…. or something like that. When you have the anxiety it can be like another full time job just to respond and tour afraid they will ask you to try again right then… if that makes sense.