Hey guys, this is a little bad but in short I received some pretty lacking sex Ed and had no idea you could or were supposed to pull the foreskin back. While I was always careful about hygiene down there, I thought it essentially amounted to cleaning the skin flap at the end of my penis.
(Pretty NSFW ahead if it wasn’t already)
My girlfriend and I were having unprotected sex last night (she is on birth control) and she felt tighter than usual, giving me some trouble. As I tried to enter one last time, I felt an acute pain near my head, and pulled out to find my foreskin stretched quite a bit down. Obviously I didn’t know enough to know really what is “normal”, but I now suspect this was just what is supposed to happen and was painful because it was all at once and my first time. The “seam” or “slit” on my head is visible for the first time when I stretch back the foreskin a little, and I noticed that after receiving ieving a handjob later in the night, my sperm went everywhere and flew out a lot faster than I’m used to.
during a shower this morning, I attempted to pull it back again when flaccid and couldn’t get very far at all. Is this a case of phimosis, or just inexperience? I am anxious to be able to finally properly clean my head and also to have sex without the threat of pain. Also, what should I expect to change sexually and in general once my foreskin is retracting as it should? Any help is greatly appreciated
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I’m so disappointed to hear this story over and over again. It’s disgusting how parents do not discuss sex or anything to do with their childs genitals. Thats why the schools need to do it.
Anyway, I do not believe you have phimosis. You just need to stretch it out. All skin will stretch almost unlimited. Use a product called Bag Balm. Its for everything. Softens and heals cuts scrapes chapped lips etc. Put a glob on and work it will u masturbate. Leave it on overnight and as much as u can. Your foreskin will become nice and pliable and fully pull back past ur glans
Of course it’s phimosis. That’s what it is when you can’t retract the foreskin all the way off the head (glans). There’s a span on spectrum of abnormality where it can be *made* to retract, “coaxed”, it won’t retract by itself. That’s not proper either. When the head can’t be uncovered, the foreskin is like a condom! A proper blowjob is impossible, and during penetration, the sexually sensitive spot cannot get rubbed directly, but only feel touches that transmit through the foreskin. You’ve seen pictures of uncovered glanses. Don’t you want partners to see that?
The treatment for this condition is to get the skin nicked so that it will ever after retract. Consult a doctor to at least discuss the details of your case.
It’s interesting to hear that there are substances that can soften the skin to make it more retractable. However, I’m skeptical that that is a desirable solution. It should retract on its own when an erection happens.
Yeah that’s phimosis. Keep stretching it in warm water. If you have difficulty with it, a doctor can perscribe you some steroid cream.
Yes generally with uncut guys if the woman is tight enough the foreskin should fold back completely when fully inside. If you aren’t used to it then it might hurt at first. Definitely pull it back in the shower or you could give her a uti. It can also smell bad, trap dirt and hair etc.
Masturbate a little more by yourself and sort of figure out what works. Stretch it out.