based on your prior relationships during your younger years, what are some things you wish you had done differently?

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1. I wish I prioritized myself more until I knew that the energy that I was putting in was being matched, but the whole time I was just getting played.

   This will pass bro, hit the weights, meditate, do whatever you can to bring productivity into your life while you process it

2. Had a girlfriend

3. I should have taken her mom up on her “offers”.

4. Wish I’d had known it was great gym motivation.

5. had an abortion, i was forced to carry rape babies

6. Based on my lack of prior relationships, I wish I had asked her out.

7. Focused on my mental health and never dated those people who made me question my self worth

8. Absolutely nothing, because then I wouldn’t be me.

9. You’re better off first figuring out and accepting what you actually want in life, even if it takes longer.

   There’s no sense in settling for anything you don’t actually want, if you can at all help it & there is no sense in busting your ass for a lifestyle you don’t even like in the first place.

   Jobs, partners, fields of study, schools, houses, cars, etc. all fall under this dynamic.

10. Split up sooner and not respected her request not to fuck all her friends

11. Not be in those younger relationships. Or bounced much sooner than I actually did.

12. Not allow myself to be manipulated.