I’m 26 f and have had sex with multiple men and each one seems to only want to spend like 5mins down there and then get to the main event! I love giving head and could do it forever if a guy let me. I enjoy giving my partner pleasure and love foreplay! Idk if it’s just me, or if I attract the wrong kind of men, but I’m always leaving disappointed. What happened to foreplay!? Does it not exist in the world of men?! Someone please give me hope and tell me not all men are like this!
Okay vent over……
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Foreplay is my favorite part of sex and eating pussy is my favorite sex act. I’m not delusional enough to think I’m special/unique in that regard. We’re definitely out there.
Hell yes we do….
that’s odd. all the guys i been with were into that and i don’t even like getting eaten out. so im sure you’ll find some out there
I like eating pussy and typically don’t stop until my partner pulls me off. I told my gf she was cuming too fast so we agreed to edge her so it would last longer. She can sometimes last 45 min or so before she just can’t hold it back anymore.
Sex with a partner who cares as much about your pleasure as their is the best sex. Don’t settle for selfish partners.
I mean, you need to keep a sense of context.
>I love giving head and could do it forever if a guy let me.
I don’t think this attitude is shared by a majority. Remember, the other common word for fellatio is a “blowjob,” and there’s a reason it involves a synonym for _work._ To quote a very wise philosopher, “Work is love made visible,” and while I’m sure there’s something very gratifying about doing it, it’s still a form of labor. You can see why some people might not have a taste for it.
(And all of this is true of cunnilingus as well. Unfortunately, the linguistic formation doesn’t allow me to make that neat analogy.)
9 times out of 10 when my wife and I have sex, her getting off orally precedes any kind of penetration. Honestly, I like it this way.
I love doing it! Mmmmmmm
We for sure exist. Idk how many guys actually care about partner pleasure though. There is nothing better than getting my partner off.
I love going down on women and making them cum. So sexy
Correction: Apparently the guys you met doesnt wanna go down on women.
I love doing it. Any time my gf is up for it. I would do it constantly if she let me
I honestly enjoy it more than getting off myself. Hearing her moan in pleasure as I make her come is just amazing!
Keep in mind that anytime you ask a blanket question about a gender, the answer will be no. Plenty of guys love to give oral. Plenty are selfish assholes who don’t.
And yes, before I get slammed, there are people who just don’t like oral, and that’s their right. Just like it’s your right to not have sex with guys who won’t.
I do but general hygiene is key. Also shaving is an issue sometimes where i feel like ive rubbed my face on sandpaper.
The important take away for you here is that being eaten out is important for you and you should not settle for a partner who doesn’t want to do that for you. There are plenty of men who love eating pussy, myself included. I go down on my wife basically every time we have sex and she pulls me up way before I’m ready to stop.
She does not feel the same way about about blowjobs. Which is ok with me. Dont get me wrong, she is amazing at them and I love it, but my size is difficult for her jaw and that’s a fair complaint. Most of my pleasure in sex comes from giving me partner pleasure. I’m happy with my infrequent but absolutely mind-blowing blowjobs while I would eat her for breakfast lunch and dinner if she’d let me.
My point here, is fine a partner who you are sexually compatible with and *wants* to give you pleasure. Don’t settle.
I only go down women im in relationships with
I’m usually down there until my partner begs me to stop. I kinda get lost in the act…
We’re out there, really.
I would go down on my wife for an hour if she would let me.
Have you told them you want them to keep going? I love eating pussy, but until recently, I haven’t done it for more than 5-10 minutes at a time. No partner has ever given me feedback (harder, softer, faster, slower, longer, etc) or asked me to keep going once I stop.
Make sure they know how much you are enjoying it (either in the moment with your sounds, words, and body language), or after the fact.
Plenty of guys do.
The only thing I can think of is to make sure that you are giving them cues that you are enjoying it, or they may think otherwise.
I like it so much. I like to start slow and get more into it. I really like when I put my whole mouth to it. Use the top and bottom of my tongue as I rock her hips instead of me moving my head. Sorry, this post just got me a bit riled up but also wanted to show you how much some guys do like it.
I love it and spend a lot more time than that. Just find the right dude!
I get what you mean. I’m always reading left and right how men love to eat pussy but I’ve yet to find it to be actually true.
‘If he ain’t eatin’ pussy, you ain’t suckin’ dick.’ Make this the motto of every woman and men like this will no longer exist.
Unfortunately many men can be kind of selfish lovers but we are out there. I love foreplay with all my partners and I find it very strange when I hear some men say they expect a blowjob but won’t eat pussy.
Sure some men also aren’t that into oral sex but then they shouldn’t expect it for themselves if they won’t return the offer.
I’m certainly into it. I get down there at least 50% of the time. My wife is very easy to get off during foreplay, so 5 minutes is usually her max if I go down there (although I know I can go way longer). You just need to find someone who clicks with you sexually.
I love going down on the wifey. It’s an obsession. It’s never long enough for me. Sometimes I think it’s odd.
Men are different though. It’s also a very intimate act that I didn’t do with our hookups in the past. You really need to know the person well IMO.
Another post about this! WTF GUYS! Eating pussy is so fucking good! like I could spend hours down there hehe. Eating a girl and making her squirm and cum over and over greatest thing ever! Why is this such an issue now adays? Now of course I am a huge foreplay guy / pleasure kink, Making a girl go crazy with pleasure is *chefs kiss*
Can’t say for other men but I’ll stay down there until the girl I’m with orgasms at least once in my mouth. It turns me on more and really gets me going!
I’m a big fan. My wife rarely wants it sadly. But when she does. Whoop whoop.
Too many people think of oral as strictly foreplay rather than a core part of sex.
Do you signal wanting more? I stay down until the girl wants dick and it’s usually within 5 minutes
I go down on my fiancé all the time. Usually it’s in the middle of sex. I take her back over the top with it and then start fucking again while she’s cumming. I’ll occasionally do it as foreplay but she prefers kissing and touching. I almost always give her an orgasm with my fingers before PIV.
Not all men are this way. We are all different. I love eating a woman u til she orgasms, and then some. It depends on how sensitive she is and how much she wants more.