For the sake of clarity, I’m talking about starting a conversation with someone you’ve “liked” and who has “liked” you back.

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  2. if i see anything about jesus, Q, or stop the steal i’m going to delete her from my app and my memory

  3. Very common male strategy for dating apps is to just like every single woman, and then actually pick and choose between the ones that like you back, it saves time. So basically it’s because they’re not really attracted to the woman

  5. If she has her Instagram in her bio. I’m just going to assume she’s only trying to get more followers.

  6. Either her profile is barren and I can’t come up with an opener, or I find something on the profile that I missed and kinda don’t fuck with.

  9. Honestly, it’s tiring always initiating and I have other shit to do, so I’m careful who I actually spend that energy on. If you have nothing interesting in your profile and I swiped just because you’re attractive, then you can start the conversation.

  10. Men just go around and swipe on EVERY girl lol and then only talk to the ones they find attractive or 3-5 girls have already made the first move and they are busy with them.

  11. When she both, responds too slow and too meaninglessly to have a real conversation. Decided I’d try just moving it in person with a couple lines instead. However, that just ends with me getting no response.

  13. Sometimes there are borderline swipes where I wasn’t sure but went right anyway. And then when we matched I lost interest or there was nothing in her profile that inspired me.

  14. 9 times out of 10 they don’t respond so actually sending a message has basically become more of a “well I got nothing better to do and am bored” kinda thing more then a “oh shit I got a match, I can’t wait to talk to her” kinda thing.

    It’s less about something stopping me from messaging and more about the outside circumstances that might motivate me to message.

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