No matter how long I talk to a friend it always seems to go back to this one state where, people just seem disinterested in talking for long. And I’m not sure why that is. Am I just, boring to them? Or is something drifting the friendship or what’s going on? Like we use to speak alot when the friendship began or, it had a peak then it always slows itself.
On so many levels people just, confuse me. I suppose I should try and find who cares yet that seems so difficult.
Does anyone know what causes this or just what can stop this?
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Friendships (any new relationship really) have honeymoon phases where you get a boost of energy. After a while the phase enda and ypu return to your normal energy levels.
In addition at the beggining you have acumulated [insert how old you are] years of stuff to tell about. After you told all of it, you no longer generate enough experiences/stuff to talk about for a length of time.
Imagine you have a bush ripe with berries. You eat a bowl of them every day, but the berries are finite and you have to wait for new berries to grow/ripe. So what began as a bowl every day, became a handful every few days. The beries in the analogy are things to share/talk about.