Hi guys throw away account here I will read and respond to messages and comments tho
15 year old boy and I have wanked almost every day for about 18 months
I’m scared that this would and dose my my orgasms bad or not as good because often I don’t realy feel anything when I cum I don’t watch porn the worst I watch is girl in bikinis and such I have been raised a Christian and do believe in Jesus and such and something I do worry about sometimes is if wanking is bad I know that it’s ok but I still have a lot of shame around it
And advice would be greatly appreciated
Thanks!
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You’re fine man. You’ll know it’s too much if you’re getting sore.
I wouldn’t recommend masturbating all day, I’ve heard some guys actually become addicted and desensitised with increased masturbation. Try pull back a bit.
But no it’s not wrong, you have nothing to be ashamed off.
Most teenage boys go to town on themselves a significant amount, you’re not alone haha. It’s completely normal, so nothing to worry about here.
Shame has absolutely no place here for sure. With that being said, there is certainly a considerable mental factor when it comes to masturbation – as someone who is 20 and has passed through his teenage years, I can tell you that if I ever felt like the orgasm was harder to achieve and/or less intense and satisfying, I would give it an extra day or two break and it definitely helped in that regard. The brain definitely can get used to something neurologically, and the more often and continuously you do one particular thing, the more likely it is the dopamine receptors to get used (and respectively numb) to it. Nothing permanent as I mentioned though.
There was recently a post in which a girl said she wasn’t really feeling oral anymore but she has consistently been using her vibrator, which fits with the continuity thing from earlier, and the common advice was to just stop using it for a while: [https://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/12cyvdw/lost_sensitive_from_receiving_oral_head/](https://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/12cyvdw/lost_sensitive_from_receiving_oral_head/)
Jesus was one a 15 year old boy who wanked.
Explore, enjoy. Take your time though, because the pace you set now (5 min vs 30 min) may stick with you. Porn is ok for figuring out your tastes, but don’t become dependent on it or let it fetishize your mind. And finally, unload the guilt aspect, because otherwise that will chase you for years and may impact your sex life with a partner negatively. Religion has a way of over-extending itself. Remember that God is God, but religion is man made and therefore full of errors.
Masturbation is healthy! And you don’t have a masturbation pleasure tank that you will deplete over time. Don’t worry. And don’t listen to the nofap ppl. Not saying nofap is bad, but most of the health claims they make are BS. Masturbation is good for your body and mind. It won’t affect your eventual sex life (unless it becomes an addiction). It won’t make your D shrink. And it won’t make God hate you. God invented orgasms, btw. [You can read more about it here](https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/sex-pleasure-and-sexual-dysfunction/masturbation).