From your perspective as a man, what things on a first date would make you want to continue seeing the other person?

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  1. Staying off her phone, eye contact, displaying feminine traits and being on the same page as me in relationship dynamics

  2. Pay attention to how they treat retail workers. It can speak **volumes** when it comes to values.

  3. Fuck, if I just get the slight feeling she’s interested it gives me the power of a thousand suns and I’ll make anything work.

  4. If she’s legit hasn’t looked at her phone all night. If she restrained herself from talking to 500 people on snapchat during the date, that means all her attention is on you. No way she’s gonna do that if she’s not entertained. Phone never come out of that purse, that’s a good sign the date was a major success.

  5. Paddle board fishing, jogging or hiking, some sort of physical activity then an easy lunch, I could have a bomb ass day with most women if they had a good time as well.

  6. Natural chemistry. I don’t care what we are doing or where. It could be in a dank basement or poorly lit alley, for all I care. I would be hooked if we connect easily through humour and share the same thought processes, which leads to easy conversation.

  7. I’m kinda suprised that many men like to have sex on a first date. Hope the are sincere and do not write it because of masculine stereotypes. I just thought that everyone needs to get used to a person to have intimate contacts, but it seems that I’m wrong.

  8. Enjoying each others company, finding each other interesting and fun and being genuinely attracted to one another.

  9. Uncomfortable sexual tension. When she is super turned on and into you, but restrains herself because she is not a casual sex lady. God that is sexy. Knowing she wants it, but has the discipline to wait. That she is selective – particular about her lovers. And when she is finally with you …. Heaven.

  10. 44m, I’ve never actually had a first date since middle school. Weird?

    I’ve taken women I’m in a relationship with on ‘dates’ but as an adult I’ve never been in the situation you’re describing.

  11. Good conversations, laughs, similar interests but doesn’t have to be the same. Curiosity that’s reciprocated as well as attention. Just a good time in general.

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