I like to be dominant when it’s his turn, but submissive when it’s my turn?

My boyfriend and I usually start with his turn, because after I finish penetration starts to feel uncomfortable. I usually please him by riding him or using my hands, then having him fuck me when I start to get tired.

And while we do this I like to do things like say “Whose are you?” to which he responds “I’m all yours”, tell him not to cum until I’m done with him but continuing anyway, make him beg for it with my name, tell him he’s a good boy, things like that.

And then once we get done and he’s recovered we’ll do my turn and he does those exact same things to me. I think it’s really hot when he does, he’s so big and strong and he gets this really sultry look in his eyes. I like to beg a lot.

Outside of our playtime neither of us are the dominant partner really, he’s quite shy so I’m maybe a little more outgoing but we’re both equal in that respect.

I’m just curious if anybody else does this because the only things I can find are about playing one role all the time.