My boyfriend 23 and I 23 have been together for almost 5 years now. We have frequent sex. A lot of sex in fact. He gets turned on pretty easily without me even making out with him. And comes in minutes during the act. Is it a problem?

6 comments

  1. Is it a problem for you? Not to be snarky, but if you and him are ok with it, all is good!

  2. It’s actually pretty common. On average most guys last between 5-10 minutes(some more some less) before ejaculation.

  4. Are you satisfied with the sex? If you’re unable to orgasm, gently bring up the idea of him stimulating you first with foreplay, then only having sex once you orgasm. I’ve struggled with this all my life, and I make my wife orgasm at least twice before we start actual intercourse.

    Just be gentle bringing it up, in his early 20’s he’s very likely to be insecure about it.

  5. You can give him your opinion on this matter. Or he’ll never know. If you want a solution, you can try the cock ring from Bestvibe, which delay ejaculation and strengthen erections.

  6. Can he get it up a second or 3rd time? If he can and those times aren’t quick , then you should be fine. If he is one and done, that is a problem.

    Lasting longer takes control. He needs to cut out the pron and masturbation. He can build control by breathing deeply and slowing down or stopping when he feels like he is about to orgasm.

    Finally, most men will want to achieve a climax soon, however, if you can get your bf beyond the first few minutes he will be able to control when he reaches a climax and hopefully thT is after you have had two or three.

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