How do you feel about neck holding during cuddling?

43 comments

1. Never had this done to me, but I don’t think I would be comfortable.

2. It’s okay I guess?

3. No

4. It would make me think he wants sex. But wrist grabbing while cuddling is great

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7. I personally love it

8. Back of the neck or front of the neck? It makes a huge difference.

9. Hard no for me as I feel really uncomfortable when anyone touches my neck.

10. Gosh, I love it. 🥰

11. Absolutely not

12. i personally love it but it’s not for everyone

13. It seems more sexual to me personally so I wouldn’t mind.

14. I don’t think I’d enjoy it.

15. Tbh, never heard of it but sounds kinda sexy to me.

16. Nope. No hands around my neck ever under any circumstances.

17. I have trauma from a past relationship, and for a long time anything near my neck was a huge trigger. It’s gotten a lot better over the years and I’ve built up enough trust with my current partner that I feel safe and he can kiss/caress my neck without it causing me any distress.

18. What? Lol

19. Meh

20. Absolutely not. It makes me think that you want to strangle me. Never put your palm on my neck or it’s game over.

21. Big fat nope. In fact, let me cuddle you. I need to not feel constricted and trapped. So me wrapping myself around the other person works best for me.

22. F$&k yeah, any show of dominance I’m down for.

23. No.

24. Sounds annoying.

25. love it

26. Love this

27. On the back of my neck would be super cozy and sweet, front of my neck would probably be fine if it was gentle caressing… I have some trauma related to being strangled in the past so I am not sure I would really be game for it.

28. Do people do this? It sounds creepy.

29. I love it, he gently holds while cuddling and I just melt

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31. It would require a metric fuckton of trust. If you had not inspired me to feel completely safe with you, it would not happen.

32. I like it but it depends on the person

33. Nope

34. Back of neck, or side ( big finger in front of ear and the rest behind the head) i like. Front of neck, no thanks. Basically don’t touch my throat that’s uncomfortable and threatening.

35. I like it

36. That’s a no from me. No hands on my neck, not during sex, not during cuddling, not ever. The only time it’s acceptable for me is during like a back rub, my husband might get up to the back of my neck in a massage and that feels ok.

37. Nope. Never minded neck/throat-touching until I found out it’s a thing now to strangle during S*x. It would put me on edge immediately and definitely not in a good way.

38. It’s okay, I have no strong feelings about it either way

39. Back, sure. Front, absolutely not

40. My neck is ticklish so i’d probably laugh. And then if my partner did try to cuddle holding my neck while cuddling, it’s a no from me.

41. Meh. I’d do like a side neck behind the ear thing. Front of neck is kinda, weird?

42. Im into it and I dom my guy

    You guys are tripping

43. I LOVEEE it. Hands touching my neck turns me on. Definitely not for everyone, but I find it sexy and comforting. Like you could choke me if you wanted to, but instead you’re just holding/touching me (although i love to be choked). I find it dominant and attractive.