I know a couple girls who like me.
Honestly they have shown more effort than me with hanging out & talking.
But I just don’t fully feel like I wanna be dating right now, I just want to focus on myself.
But I’m a guy… I still wouldn’t mind having sex with them, just no full commitment.
I had sex with one of them and only kissed the other.
I mainly just want to friends, to have someone I can talk too once inna while, not everyday!!
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By being a friend. Which means you don’t fuck or kiss them.
You don’t deserve to have sex with any of them since you’re not willing to give anything back. Stay single, you’re awful
So you like playing stupid games is what you’re saying. GTFOH. Loser
They will eventually lose interest when a better option materializes.
Wanting to have sex with them is not keeping them in the friend zone.
What your really asking is how long can you manipulate woman that have an innocent interest in you into having sex with no strings attached? And the answer is you can’t because they’ve attached those strings already and as soon as you tell them your not interested in dating you will be alone.
No. That’s kind of toxic. Be upfront about your intentions. Let them have a full picture of what you are offering
“Dear Reddit, help me be a player and use people for what I want” –Scumbag
Tell them you don’t want to date right now but that you’d be interested in something casual.
Honesty
You sound like a huge dick so she will lose interest eventually
Be up front and direct. Not every woman is ok with a casual arrangement. Or with you having casual arrangements with other women.
If they lose interest, so be it. Don’t be a dick.
You sound like a piece of shit.
You are asking advice on how to string along multiple women that like you so that when you finally manage to get your dick up without 2lbs of Viagra, you can bone them and move on?
Gross. How about instead of essentially grooming them to be fuck buddies, you tell them you aren’t interested in a relationship. Let them make up their own minds instead of trying to subtly manipulate their feelings.
>But I’m a guy…
That is not what being a man is about. Leading women on for occasional sex is perhaps one of the least masculine things you could do.
Tell them you are polyamorous, because it sounds like you are, and then learn all about polyamory and how to express yourself in a way they will understand and appreciate!
Ah, so you’re why they hate us.
It’s a deep pain for women who had interest on you. Don’t be a selfish.
Are you trying to imply that you want to keep them interested enough in a potential relationship to have sex with you, but without actually having to commit?
… Don’t do that.
I think you have an bizarre definition of friendship.
You may lose them but be honest with them. Honesty is the best policy long term.
Options – this is what your friends are to you. Hopefully they figure it out sooner than later. Nothing wrong with concentrating in yourself right now but don’t keep them idling by.
Tell them you want to be friends with benefits. Be open about not wanting to date but still wanting to be friendly and hook up. If they are down great if not look for girls who are. Don’t try and manipulate others for your ends. Be honest about yourself and look for people who that works for.