(Hoping this makes sense) I’ve always been attracted to people based on how they look and how they dress. But a lot of the times, I’ve realized my sense of style doesn’t match with theirs, and vice versa. I always imagined my sense of style turns off the kind of people that I tend to be attracted to, and sometimes a person’s sense of style turns me off from them, even if they’re good looking. That being said, when looking for a partner, can their sense of style be a valid dealbreaker, or should it be something that can be compromised?
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It can be a turn off but for me, it would have to be pretty extreme to be a problem.
It matters a LOT to some people, not at all to others, and anywhere in between. I mostly don’t give a shit about a person’s style, but there are a few specific things that are a turn off for me. Also, I would be put off by a person who isn’t able to dress appropriately for specific occasions.
If it’s something that is important to you, then yes, it is a valid deal breaker.
Objectively, that stuff isn’t important but if you’re a person that is motivated, inspired and excited by that sort of thing, then yeah, it’s important enough to be a deal breaker.
Style and expressing yourself through fashion is a part of our personalities. If the don’t match in values, it just makes sense that it is a mismatch.
Literally doesn’t matter to me