Im confused tbh i could see myself having sex with a woman but i want a straight relationship. I room with my friend (F) everytime we get drunk or tispy she would flirt with me and “accidentally” touch my boobs or butt it honestly turns me on but she has a bf so i cant just be like wanna have sex? Idk im just confused
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Don’t worry about it, is normal to be confused or surprised when discovering your sexuality. For example I’m Bi, but I’m more towards to women than men. And I went through that, like I didn’t knew what to do until I did it and I confirm it by myself.
What I honestly recommend you is that you explore yourself to the fullest, who knows, maybe you’ll like more that. And if you don’t like it, you can at least know with 100% truth what’s what you like and what not.
i feel this way to i want to be with a girl but i can’t see us dating
you’re kind of in the midst of figuring out your sexuality and that’s okay. it’s okay to be confused and it’s okay to want to engage in sex with a woman but not want a relationship. i just say be honest to the women you do engage with sexually and if you do find out that you wanna date woman then be open to it. 🙂 goodluck
Entirely normal. You can be bisexual and heteromantic.
I am not big on labels but the term ‘heteroflexible’ is what you describe. Lot’s of us like that! I am romantically, emotionally, and sexually attracted to men so that’s who I date but I can also be just sexually attracted to women.
If you think she’s thinking the same thing, she can have her bf for permission. If I were the bf, I don’t think I would say no.
My girlfriend describes herself as slightly unwillingly heterosexual (no pressure). Just a thought. Big world, lots of feelings.