Okay, so.. this is my first time doing this but I’m looking to reddit for their opinions about this
So, my boyfriend essentially wants to do anal with me and I dunno how to feel about it. Now I have asked about him being into it, him saying he doesn’t have a crazy opinion on it he just finds my ass sexy, but we haven’t gone into a super in depth talk about it. Though the passing comments and sexual whispers during hornier moments have been made about anal making me more than sure he’s at the very least into it.
Now for some context, we haven’t had our first times yet, still virgins and have only gone as far as oral partially because we’re comfortable where we’re at and, for me personally, we’ve been together for a some months and I don’t know if I’m ready for all that thrusting and stuff.
Anyways, I myself don’t have a bad perspective on anal I just don’t see myself doing it? To clarify I think anal can be very sexy from what I hear from stories and seen from porn but I can’t necessarily imagine enjoying the feeling of poopin backwards. But, recently my partner and I were cuddling and grinding and he dry humps my ass, specifically thrusting my asshole, and I admittedly enjoyed it. This gave me a bit of an internal crisis because, again, never saw myself doing it but I did eventually get curious tbh and tried a finger in but it felt like weird backwards poop invasion so couldn’t enjoy it. It’s like.. “am I into anal now or just outside stimulation? But he’s pushing his dick into my asshole basically??” Overall, just a little confused on the sector.
But that’s it, what’s your opinion reddit?
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Use lube (coconut oil). A dick is a lot bigger than a finger, and it’s generally a good idea to make sure your colon is clean before you take a good pounding. Try playing with your ass in the shower first just by cleaning it out with water, then try and work up to a dildo or a small cucumber if you don’t have one. Then after a self play shower invite your boyfriend to use your warmed up ass. Because a dry dick in a tight ass hurts that hole like a mf.
Don’t force yourself about anything, if on the moment you don’t feel like doing it just say stop but there is nothing wrong about wanting to try. You can just start with foreplay, let him put a finger with lube. And if you enjoy it you can go a bit further. Don’t forget to wash your hole before, it’s always better than having bad surprises.
Tell him to lube himself up well and that you will use a large strap on for his first time. If he likes it you may consider it.