I love myself dearly for who I am, I’m full of self confidence in myself, and I could care less if 1 billion women looked at me right now and thought “Nope, he’s fugly”.

I don’t take pictures of myself. It’s very rare that I do. Best picture I have of myself is November 2021 when I went hiking out in the mountains with my mother. That’s the picture I usually use on my social media or dating apps. I guess it’s not enough though, I probably get swiped left all day long even when paying for “spotlight” (Bumble Dating App)

I probably don’t do a good job with my bio/about me part of the profile. I keep changing it and trying to find what’s good to put on my profile, but, still to no avail. I guess my looks just aren’t likeable!

But hey, this is all based online. I’m going to do my best to dig out of my introverted shell and actually go out, using meetup, and I’ve also joined a group on Facebook that looks nice that’s in my city.

When I’m at work. I LOVE getting to casually chat to women, getting smiles from women, I give women high fives, and even hang out with them at the end of my work day. Everyone loves me where I work. When they don’t see me working a certain day a couple weeks in a row, I always get “Where’s the cafe guy at? I want him back!” I absolutely love a lot of my regular customers that I see every week/season/year. (Sports Facility, I work in a cafe)

So yeah, the dating department is terrible for me online, but might actually be better for me in real life because I can be myself around women and I’ll get all sorts of smiles and giggles! I’m such a nerd and goofball and loveable!!!

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  1. Online Dating is for almost everyone terrible, lots of fake accounts and toxic people.
    Better to meet people in real life!!
    I’ve tried online-dating-apps but all of then are terrible. It feels more like ‘applying for work/job’ then having a nice, fun and good conversations.
    Im glad covid restrictions are gone here, so it would be easier to meet people here in The Netherlands.. but most people are too shy to meet people IRL.
    Such a weird world at the moment.

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