So yea. We break up. And im done for good and I begin to move on from this toxic relationship. Then a week later she goes to the hospital for a serious condition and I become aware of this so I’m naturally worried about her. I contact her to see what’s up and she’s really worried and has put things into perspective for her and then I see that we’re falling back into our old ways and even tho I do love her and want the best for her I still don’t want to get back together. So i told her this in order not to mislead her and now I’m the bad guy and she’s making it seem like I broke up with her in the middle of her going thru this serious health scare and I’m an asshole this and that and I’m not man enough to stay during the hard times etc etc….
I feel bad and i hope she gets through this but I don’t want to get back with her. Am I a piece of shit?
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No, this isn’t true. She can say what she wants to try to use this as a way to hold you, but that’s not love or even like for you. That’s her wanting you to shower her with love, not voice versa, or she’d respect your wishes. Leave her be, she’s got support, you’re just going to make things worse by being loving if you’re truly done.
You’ll never be the bad guy for leaving a toxic relationship.