Hi so me (29M) and my gf (31) have a pretty common understanding that if one or the other is away (because we started as a long distance) and an opportunity rises to have sex, we can pursue it. This has worked out for as long as I remember and we are still together.
The only problem is that I still think about the way one of my fwb fucked me. I’ve never experienced anything like it and she just blew my mind. We’ve however parted ways because she got a bf and in the end I’m living with my gf.
I’ve tried couple times to get my gf do the things she did in which she either not liked the idea or even got grossed out by it. Anyway..
How do you guys cope with this? Sometimes I think about it and it drives me insane that I’ll never have such an experience again. It’s been a year and half since that time and it pops up every month or 2 sometimes.
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Unless you’re going to break up with your partner and try to pursue the other, suck it up. Remember it fondly, but don’t dwell on it.
are you upset because your girlfriend doesnt fuck you like your FWB? who are both individual people with different likes and dislikes??
If you have feelings with you fwb friend you should be honest with your current s/o. Fantasies are nice, but you don’t want to hurt the current s/o you’re with now.