Did you ever feel like a place holder once you got married ? Like your partner know you’ll always be there so they tend to do what they want . Why is that ? Before we get married we do everything to keep them or make them happy , but once we been married couple of years we start to slack and do what we really wanted to ? Do you feel like a place holder for your spouse??
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Nope because I would not stand for that.
You should look into therapy. There is no way for us to know if your feeling like a placeholder is your anxiety talking or if there are specific behaviors of your partner that are leadinging you to believe you are, or if it it a combination of the two. And whether it does happen to others (I’m sure it does) it is undoubtedly an uncomfortable feeling for you,not to mention unsustainable in a marriage.
So find someone you can talk with and analyze this with to learn how you need to approach your specific issues.
Agreed. And the worst thing, there is not really anyone I can talk to about this 🥲 or can understand.